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	<title>Comments on: NY Divorce Negotiation: Trying to Stop the Dam From Breaking&#8230;</title>
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		<title>By: Families and Divorce</title>
		<link>https://nyuncontesteddivorceattorney.com/wordpress/2010/02/ny-divorce-negotiation-trying-to-stop-the-dam-from-breaking/#comment-185</link>
		<dc:creator>Families and Divorce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 02:55:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>When considering how to split everything up, these divorce settlement negotiation strategies and considerations can help you get the most fair and equitable outcome from your divorce.
.-= Families and Divorce´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://effectofdivorce.com/causes-of-divorce/marriage-counseling-one-of-the-greatest-causes-of-divorce&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Marriage Counseling – One of the Greatest Causes of Divorce&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When considering how to split everything up, these divorce settlement negotiation strategies and considerations can help you get the most fair and equitable outcome from your divorce.<br />
.-= Families and Divorce´s last blog ..<a href="http://effectofdivorce.com/causes-of-divorce/marriage-counseling-one-of-the-greatest-causes-of-divorce" rel="nofollow">Marriage Counseling – One of the Greatest Causes of Divorce</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Divorce Court</title>
		<link>https://nyuncontesteddivorceattorney.com/wordpress/2010/02/ny-divorce-negotiation-trying-to-stop-the-dam-from-breaking/#comment-184</link>
		<dc:creator>Divorce Court</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 02:51:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Negotiation is the act of achieving an agreement with another party. In the case of a potential divorce, your spouse wants out and you don&#039;t. While it appears impossible to come to any middle ground, it can be done. The trick is to negotiate not for your spouse to stop the divorce, but to negotiate for time. You want to stall the divorce from being filed so that you can carry out a side strategy for fixing your relationship.
.-= Divorce Court´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://divorceonchildren.com/divorce-law/perus-speedy-divorce-law&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Peru’s Speedy Divorce Law&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Negotiation is the act of achieving an agreement with another party. In the case of a potential divorce, your spouse wants out and you don&#8217;t. While it appears impossible to come to any middle ground, it can be done. The trick is to negotiate not for your spouse to stop the divorce, but to negotiate for time. You want to stall the divorce from being filed so that you can carry out a side strategy for fixing your relationship.<br />
.-= Divorce Court´s last blog ..<a href="http://divorceonchildren.com/divorce-law/perus-speedy-divorce-law" rel="nofollow">Peru’s Speedy Divorce Law</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Teens and Divorce</title>
		<link>https://nyuncontesteddivorceattorney.com/wordpress/2010/02/ny-divorce-negotiation-trying-to-stop-the-dam-from-breaking/#comment-183</link>
		<dc:creator>Teens and Divorce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 02:41:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>While a bad settlement may sometimes beat a good trial, a good settlement beats a bad settlement. A good settlement doesn&#039;t just happen. It is the result of good negotiation. And good negotiation is the result of certain rules.
.-= Teens and Divorce´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://impactofdivorce.com/impact-of-divorce/divorce-how-does-it-impact-my-teenager&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Divorce: How Does It Impact My Teenager?&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While a bad settlement may sometimes beat a good trial, a good settlement beats a bad settlement. A good settlement doesn&#8217;t just happen. It is the result of good negotiation. And good negotiation is the result of certain rules.<br />
.-= Teens and Divorce´s last blog ..<a href="http://impactofdivorce.com/impact-of-divorce/divorce-how-does-it-impact-my-teenager" rel="nofollow">Divorce: How Does It Impact My Teenager?</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: International Divorce</title>
		<link>https://nyuncontesteddivorceattorney.com/wordpress/2010/02/ny-divorce-negotiation-trying-to-stop-the-dam-from-breaking/#comment-182</link>
		<dc:creator>International Divorce</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2010 02:33:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You have decided to divorce, have chosen a lawyer or have decided to represent yourself, and have gathered necessary information on the family&#039;s economic situation. What happens now? Usually negotiations. This is not a totally new skill you have to learn. We negotiate every day. Those who have children know that a normal three-year-old is an instinctive negotiator for the important things in life -- staying up another ten minutes, not eating the carrots until you promise candy, and so forth. we each bargain and attempt to persuade in just about every aspect of our relationships with other people, and we also do so when we divorce.
.-= International Divorce´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://causesfordivorce.com/fast-divorce/the-lowdown-on-a-quick-ny-divorce&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;The Lowdown On A Quick NY Divorce&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You have decided to divorce, have chosen a lawyer or have decided to represent yourself, and have gathered necessary information on the family&#8217;s economic situation. What happens now? Usually negotiations. This is not a totally new skill you have to learn. We negotiate every day. Those who have children know that a normal three-year-old is an instinctive negotiator for the important things in life &#8212; staying up another ten minutes, not eating the carrots until you promise candy, and so forth. we each bargain and attempt to persuade in just about every aspect of our relationships with other people, and we also do so when we divorce.<br />
.-= International Divorce´s last blog ..<a href="http://causesfordivorce.com/fast-divorce/the-lowdown-on-a-quick-ny-divorce" rel="nofollow">The Lowdown On A Quick NY Divorce</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Robert J. Matlock@McKinney Divorce Attorney</title>
		<link>https://nyuncontesteddivorceattorney.com/wordpress/2010/02/ny-divorce-negotiation-trying-to-stop-the-dam-from-breaking/#comment-181</link>
		<dc:creator>Robert J. Matlock@McKinney Divorce Attorney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Apr 2010 20:06:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Most Texas judges agree with you David, negotiation makes better divorces whether they are contested or not.

Studies here showed that mediated divorces were faster, less expensive and (most important) resulted in better compliance than court orders after divorce. As a result the judges took the very practical step of requiring mediation between divorcing parties before they would allow attorneys to schedule a court hearing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most Texas judges agree with you David, negotiation makes better divorces whether they are contested or not.</p>
<p>Studies here showed that mediated divorces were faster, less expensive and (most important) resulted in better compliance than court orders after divorce. As a result the judges took the very practical step of requiring mediation between divorcing parties before they would allow attorneys to schedule a court hearing!</p>
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		<title>By: Bike rental NYC</title>
		<link>https://nyuncontesteddivorceattorney.com/wordpress/2010/02/ny-divorce-negotiation-trying-to-stop-the-dam-from-breaking/#comment-180</link>
		<dc:creator>Bike rental NYC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 02:26:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;but meeting somewhere in the middle makes everybody feel better in the end&quot; - totally agree! You shouldn&#039;t do &quot;war&quot; process. To do it peacefully is the best way.
.-= Bike rental NYC´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.bikerentalsnyc.com/nyc-bike-rental-company&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;NYC Bike Rental Company&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;but meeting somewhere in the middle makes everybody feel better in the end&#8221; &#8211; totally agree! You shouldn&#8217;t do &#8220;war&#8221; process. To do it peacefully is the best way.<br />
.-= Bike rental NYC´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.bikerentalsnyc.com/nyc-bike-rental-company" rel="nofollow">NYC Bike Rental Company</a> =-.</p>
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		<title>By: Speed Trap</title>
		<link>https://nyuncontesteddivorceattorney.com/wordpress/2010/02/ny-divorce-negotiation-trying-to-stop-the-dam-from-breaking/#comment-179</link>
		<dc:creator>Speed Trap</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 20:16:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Negotiation is the key, I believe, to the best divorce. Nobody is going to walk away happy regardless, but meeting somewhere in the middle makes everyone feel better in the end.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Negotiation is the key, I believe, to the best divorce. Nobody is going to walk away happy regardless, but meeting somewhere in the middle makes everyone feel better in the end.</p>
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		<title>By: Adam@Antelope Valley Bankruptcy Attorney</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adam@Antelope Valley Bankruptcy Attorney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 05:54:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Our office spends a fair amount of time doing self-help seminars on behalf of pro se debtors, but despite our best efforts to empower and educate, I often see critical and damaging errors made.  Proper representation can make all the difference in the world.

I can see how this would be especially the case in the deliberate negotiation towards an uncontested divorce.
.-= Adam@Antelope Valley Bankruptcy Attorney´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.klavirlaw.com/helpful-hints-for-pro-se-debtors-lessons-learned-at-creditors-meetings&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Helpful Hints for Pro Se Debtors: Lessons Learned at Creditors Meetings&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our office spends a fair amount of time doing self-help seminars on behalf of pro se debtors, but despite our best efforts to empower and educate, I often see critical and damaging errors made.  Proper representation can make all the difference in the world.</p>
<p>I can see how this would be especially the case in the deliberate negotiation towards an uncontested divorce.<br />
.-= Adam@Antelope Valley Bankruptcy Attorney´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.klavirlaw.com/helpful-hints-for-pro-se-debtors-lessons-learned-at-creditors-meetings" rel="nofollow">Helpful Hints for Pro Se Debtors: Lessons Learned at Creditors Meetings</a> =-.</p>
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