Nearly two years to the date since the District started issuing marriage licenses to same sex couples, the D.C. Council is making it easier for them to get a divorce.

Breaking up is hard to do no matter where you live—but, that has been especially true for same sex couples who were married in D.C. but live in states where those unions are not recognized.

But, when their relationship hits the rocks—couples turn to Michele Zavos—she has become the go-to attorney for same sex couples looking to get a divorce.

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Dividing retirement plans in a divorce is never easy. When one spouse is in the military, it gets even harder.

The issue affects millions of military couples for whom a pension is often their largest asset.

The benefits can be substantial. A lieutenant colonel in the Air Force with 30 years of service gets a pension worth $72,288 a year. The pensions aren’t paid in lump sums, but if they were, the “present value” of a career officer’s pension can easily exceed $1 million.

Read More : WSJ

Television evangelist Pat Robertson has come in for some major criticism following his recent remarks that  a man whose wife was far “gone” with Alzheimer’s should divorce her if he wanted a new companion.

On his television program, “The 700 Club, Mr. Robertson took a call from a man asking how he should advise a friend whose wife was deep into dementia and no longer recognized him.

“His wife as he knows her is gone,” the caller said, and the friend is “bitter at God for allowing his wife to be in that condition, and now he’s started seeing another woman.”

“This is a terribly hard thing,” Mr. Robertson said, clearly struggling to think his way through a wrenching situation. “I hate Alzheimer’s. It is one of the most awful things, because here’s the loved one — this is the woman or man that you have loved for 20, 30, 40 years, and suddenly that person is gone.”

Read More : NY Times

In Massachusetts, the Senate has made an important change to divorce law by passing an alimony reform bill. This new legislation reforms a trial judge’s ability to determine the length of alimony, consequently ending lifetime spousal support by enforcing duration determining guidelines.

Before the bill was passed, alimony would continue passed the age of retirement which left one person sipping pina coladas on a beach in Cabo, collecting alimony, and the other individual working to support the person’s lifestyle. The bill now states alimony in long term marriages (those that exceed twenty years) ends at the retirement age decreed by the Social Security Act. With shorter term marriages, a specific time period would be implemented for the alimony payment, every case being different.

What does this mean? It means that Massachusetts may be the first domino to topple, and in due time, the rest of the states may follow.  This is a bill that will make positive changes; a bill that will allow people to leave their broken marriages behind and make peace with their lives-something that the constant reminder of alimony payments doesn’t provide.

Economist Joseph E. Stiglitz filed a complaint against ex-divorce lawyer Rita M. Bank of Ain & Bank in Washington claiming that he “would have saved millions of dollars in legal fees, expert fees and future incomes and royalties [had] Bank filed his divorce in a timely manner in Washington or informed him of the legal costs of not accepting the settlement offers.” The trial, which will last six days, will include testimonies from Bank and Stiglitz.

Stiglitz originally sought $5 million and “suggested that he could testify as his own damages expert.” U.S. District Court Judge Leon rejected those requests and limited the amount of damages to $1.3 million.

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The following is the standard Statement of Client’s Rights and responsibilities that I include in all my New York divorce and family law retainer agreements.  If you retain me as your divorce or family law lawyer, the following will be your rights and responsibilities:

STATEMENT OF CLIENT’S RIGHTS AND RESPONSIBILITIES

YOUR ATTORNEY is providing you with this document to inform you of what you, as a client, are entitled to by law or custom.  To help prevent a misunderstanding between you and your attorney, please read this document carefully.

If you ever have any questions about these rights, or about the way your case is being handled, do not hesitate to ask your attorney.  Your attorney should be readily available to repre­sent your best interests and keep you informed about your case.

• An attorney may not refuse to represent you on the basis of race, creed, color, sex, sexual orientation, national origin or disability.
• You are entitled to an attorney who will be capable of handling your case; show you courtesy and consideration at all times; represent you zealously; and preserve your confidences and secrets that are revealed in the course of the relationship.
• You are entitled to a written retainer agreement which must set forth, in plain language, the nature of the relationship and the details of the fee arrangement.  At your request, and before you sign the agreement, you are entitled to have your attor­ney clarify in writing any of its terms, or include additional provisions.
• You are entitled to fully understand the proposed rates and retainer fee before you sign a retainer agreement, as in any other contract.
• You may refuse to enter into any fee arrangement that you find unsatisfactory.
• Your attorney may not request a fee that is contingent on the securing of a divorce or on the amount of money or property that may be obtained.
• Your attorney may not request a retainer fee that is nonrefundable.  That is, should you discharge your attorney, or should your attorney withdraw from the case before the retainer is used up, he or she is entitled to be paid commensurate with the work performed on your case, but must return the balance of the retainer to you.  However, your attorney may enter into a minimum fee arrangement with you that provides for the payment of a specific amount below which the fee will not fall based upon the handling of the case to its conclusion.
• You are entitled to know the approximate number of attor­neys and other legal staff members who will be working on your case at any given time and what you will be charged for the services of each.
• You are entitled to know in advance how you will be asked to pay legal fees and expenses and how the retainer, if any, will be spent.
• At your request, and after your attorney has had a rea­sonable opportunity to investigate your case, you are entitled to be given an estimate of approximate future costs of your case, which estimate shall be made in good faith but may be subject to change due to facts and circumstances affecting the case.
• You are entitled to receive a written, itemized bill on a regular basis, at least every 60 days.
• You are expected to review the bills sent by counsel, and to raise any objections or errors in a timely manner.  Time spent in discussion of bills will not be charged to you.
• You are expected to be truthful in all discussions with your attorney, and to provide all relevant information and docu­mentation to enable him or her to competently prepare your case.
• You are entitled to be kept informed of the status of your case, and to be provided with copies of correspondence and documents prepared on your behalf or received from the court or your adversary.
• You have the right to be present in court at the time that conferences are held.
• You are entitled to make the ultimate decision on the objectives to be pursued in your case, and to make the final decision regarding settlement of your case.
• Your attorney’s written retainer agreement must specify under what circumstances he or she might seek to withdraw as your attorney for nonpayment of legal fees.  If an action or proceeding is pending, the court may give your attorney a “charging lien,” which entitles your attorney to payment for services already rendered at the end of the case out of the proceeds of the final order or judgment.
• You are under no legal obligation to sign a confession of judgment or promissory note, or to agree to a lien or mortgage on your home to cover legal fees.  Your attorney’s written retainer agreement must specify whether, and under what circumstances, such security may be requested.  In no event may such security interest be obtained by your attorney without prior court approval and notice to your adversary.  An attorney’s security interest in the marital residence cannot be foreclosed against you.
• You are entitled to have your attorney’s best efforts exerted on your behalf, but no particular results can be guaranteed.
• If you entrust money with an attorney for an escrow deposit in your case, the attorney must safeguard the escrow in a special bank account.  You are entitled to a written escrow agree­ment, and may request that one or more interest-bearing bank accounts be used.  You also are entitled to a written receipt, and a complete record concerning the escrow.  When the terms of the escrow agreement have been performed, the attorney must promptly make payment of the escrow to all persons who are entitled to it.
• In the event of a fee dispute, you may have the right to seek arbitration.  Your attorney will provide you with the necessary information regarding arbitration in the event of a fee dispute, or upon your request.